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	<title>Comments on: Are YOU having a selfish affair or relationship?</title>
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		<title>By: Barbara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad you like the humor!  And I like the fact you&#039;re encouraging in these matters as well - that&#039;s always a great way to approach things.

Enjoy, Barbara</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad you like the humor!  And I like the fact you&#8217;re encouraging in these matters as well &#8211; that&#8217;s always a great way to approach things.</p>
<p>Enjoy, Barbara</p>
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		<title>By: John Hoff - eVentureBiz</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hoff - eVentureBiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could feel the caffeine race through &lt;em&gt;my&lt;/em&gt; veins as I read your article LOL. You&#039;re so funny.
 
To answer your final question, I don&#039;t think we can be on a level playing field. If I hire someone who doesn&#039;t know nearly as much as me in web development to design some websites, I will have some &quot;teacher&quot; aspect approach.
 
I make sure though I always (or try to) approach situations like these in an encouraging manner.
 

&lt;em&gt;John Hoff - eVentureBiz&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/eVentureBizBlog/~3/347561276/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hello &amp; Welcome To The eVentureBiz Blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could feel the caffeine race through &lt;em&gt;my&lt;/em&gt; veins as I read your article LOL. You&#8217;re so funny.<br />
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To answer your final question, I don&#8217;t think we can be on a level playing field. If I hire someone who doesn&#8217;t know nearly as much as me in web development to design some websites, I will have some &#8220;teacher&#8221; aspect approach.<br />
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I make sure though I always (or try to) approach situations like these in an encouraging manner.<br />
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<p><em>John Hoff &#8211; eVentureBiz&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/eVentureBizBlog/~3/347561276/'>Hello &#38; Welcome To The eVentureBiz Blog</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Barbara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 14:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Karen,

Your point, &quot;It is a lesson that can never be heard too often&quot; is so true.  One thing that I&#039;ve found helps is to alway go into ANY relationship with my eyes entirely open - ie, I&#039;ve learned how NOT to delude myself by false promises, innuendos, etc.  It&#039;s tough learning....but definitely worthwhile.

Thanks for stopping by, Barbara</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Karen,</p>
<p>Your point, &#8220;It is a lesson that can never be heard too often&#8221; is so true.  One thing that I&#8217;ve found helps is to alway go into ANY relationship with my eyes entirely open &#8211; ie, I&#8217;ve learned how NOT to delude myself by false promises, innuendos, etc.  It&#8217;s tough learning&#8230;.but definitely worthwhile.</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by, Barbara</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 14:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Barbara, wow! 46 cups of coffee really gets those thoughts percolating! I don&#039;t leave my value system behind when doing business and I happen to believe that we are all on the same playing field. Yet, we are all human and capable of making mistakes. Thank you for the reminder to be sensitive to the needs of others. It is a lesson that can never be heard too often.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Barbara, wow! 46 cups of coffee really gets those thoughts percolating! I don&#8217;t leave my value system behind when doing business and I happen to believe that we are all on the same playing field. Yet, we are all human and capable of making mistakes. Thank you for the reminder to be sensitive to the needs of others. It is a lesson that can never be heard too often.</p>
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