Comments on: I told my guardian angel NO today

By: Barbara

Barbara — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 09:37:40 +0000

Yes indeed! Not only that however…you can also choose where to put your value and how to be there (or not) for people in your life.

It’s much healthier that way.

By: Karen Swim

Karen Swim — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:30:21 +0000

Barbara, ah yes, the giver’s dilemma. We are giving, and helpful and we often have difficulty discerning when to stop. My big breakthrough came when I realized that people naturally expected me to take care of myself (duh!), that was my job not theirs. I also concluded that to honor the gifts and blessings that God had given me meant also caring for how they are distributed. This included putting an end to devaluing my professional time and services. Am I any less giving? Nope! But I am wiser, happier and not allowing others to bleed me dry.
.-= Karen Swim´s last blog ..The World’s Not Small It’s Just Sliced Really Thin =-.

By: Barbara

Barbara — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:26:50 +0000

Thanks so much for your wisdom, and glad you liked my newsletter!

Life, it’s character-building indeed.

By: Victoria

Victoria — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:09:57 +0000

Hi Barbara,
I really enjoyed your newsletter today, the posts you noted, the negative comments blog by Diana really made me laugh and also your post above!
Your post reminded me of an article on O’Oponopono, a true story about a therapist in Hawaii by Dr. Joe Vitale called “I’m Sorry I Love You”, have you read it? It’s basically talking about healing that part in yourself so that this part can be healed others, so when one forgives oneself- this can heal, which then has effect on others around you through thought.
It is a beautiful planet we live on!
Great weekend to you
best
vic
.-= Victoria´s last blog ..St. Martin Art Goes To France For The Summer =-.