Comments on: Are you voting for the MILF or unbuttoning the beast?

By: Barbara

Barbara — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 14:13:09 +0000

When it comes right down to it….any publicity is good publicity.

Barbara

By: Mitch

Mitch — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 14:03:31 +0000

So, that's where that page went; I've now finally seen it. That's pretty funny actually; I wonder what her reaction would be if she knew about it. Mitch's last blog post..Panda Experiment Is Over

By: Barbara

Barbara — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 08:40:52 +0000

Hi John,

Love your comment, especially the “My spirit may be eternal, but I still react like a teenager sometimes”. When folks our age see that I’m an enthusiastic participant in Martial Arts or learn that I enjoy dancing outside in torrential rainstorms or discover that I’ll take on my kids in DDR no matter who is looking…I’ll get some of those ‘act your age’ looks. Thing is…I am!!

And I checked out the http://vpilf.com/ site – cute!

Thanks for sharing, Barbara

By: John Dilbeck

John Dilbeck — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:41:58 +0000

Hi Barbara,
I just followed a link from one of your comments on Mitch’s blog to see what your blog was all about. After looking at some of your recent posts and subscribing, I just had to come back here and comment.
A friend of mine says, “I can’t stop growing older, but I can be immature as long as I want.”
I can relate to that since I’m physically 56 but in terms of my emotions and maturity I think I’m still hovering somewhere around 16. I think that’s true for a lot of the men I know and some of the women.
My spirit may be eternal, but I still react like a teenager sometimes.
As a young man, I was always attracted to women in their late 30s and 40s, and still am. However, then, they were a decade or so older than me, and now I’m a decade older than they are.
Then, I was the young dude; now I’m the dirty old man.
I’m not exactly sure how that happened. (grin)
I think some of us are more hardwired to respond to sex-related advertising than others, but I don’t think I’m going to “unbutton the beast” any time soon.
I know a couple of women who are happy to refer to themselves as a MILF and, no, they don’t have websites.
One of them told me about VPILF.com and I was amused when I went there.
As for the double standard you mention, maybe that’s just our way of compensating for knowing deep inside that we men just can’t keep up with those women who appreciate sex – with someone other than us!
(grin)
All the best,
JD

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By: Barbara

Barbara — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 00:42:51 +0000

Yep. But alas, it’s life. Go figure.

Best wishes, Barbara

By: Barbara

Barbara — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 00:42:30 +0000

Hey Mitch!

Thanks for your comments! And you’re so right with the statement “any time someone decides to try to lock it down, then it picks up even more”. Ah well, perhaps maturity will educate all. Barbara

By: Mitch

Mitch — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:08:35 +0000

Well, first, you KNOW I had to see where the site took me; it's now redirecting to Google, of all things. One thing that most folks don't remember is that sex has always been an obsession throughout history. Archeologists have found sex objects and art with sexual themes going back at least 10,000 years, and it probably goes back further than that. It's the one thing that doesn't stop when the economy goes bad, when the weather gets bad, when we go to war, etc. And, any time someone decides to try to lock it down, then it picks up even more. All of us probably need to relax just a bit more on this topic, but it's probably not going to happen any time soon. Still, I don't know that I'll be expecting a lot of women to be walking around asking people to refer to them as a MILF. lol Mitch's last blog post..Wasting Time

By: kouji

kouji — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 12:00:41 +0000

indeed, it's wrong. both men and women enjoy sex. there should be no shame in admitting such a fact. the double standard here is frustrating. kouji's last blog post..haiku poem: friendship (loss)