Comments on: What’s your sole VALUE in life? http://www.barbaraling.com/insights/whats-your-sole-value-in-life/ 14+ Years Your Source For Your Marketing and Blogging Success Sat, 10 Dec 2011 18:21:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Barbara Ling http://www.barbaraling.com/insights/whats-your-sole-value-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-974 Barbara Ling Sat, 05 Jul 2008 16:41:27 +0000 http://www.barbaraling.com/?p=280#comment-974 I agree with you - folks always have more than one value...but sometimes their friends/family/etc. act as though only one facet is truly important....and to hell with the rest of the stuff you bring to the table. And I agree...logically, a lack in the second should NEVER detract from your confidence or value in the first. But sometimes people sure will imply that's the fact. :sad: Ah well, life....it's character-building. :) Thanks for stopping on by, Barbara <em>Barbara Ling's last blog post..<a href='http://www.barbaraling.com/insights/whats-your-sole-value-in-life/' rel="nofollow">What’s your sole VALUE in life?</a></em> I agree with you – folks always have more than one value…but sometimes their friends/family/etc. act as though only one facet is truly important….and to hell with the rest of the stuff you bring to the table.

And I agree…logically, a lack in the second should NEVER detract from your confidence or value in the first.

But sometimes people sure will imply that’s the fact. :sad:

Ah well, life….it’s character-building. :)

Thanks for stopping on by, Barbara

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]]> By: Mitch http://www.barbaraling.com/insights/whats-your-sole-value-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-972 Mitch Sat, 05 Jul 2008 16:27:47 +0000 http://www.barbaraling.com/?p=280#comment-972 Well, the topic and then the follow up question are two different things, so I'm going to answer them that way.   First, I don't know that a person can have a "sole" value, otherwise they'd be pretty shallow, but my "main" value has always been loyalty, especially if there's been no real reason to not be loyal.  My wife will calls me Dudley DoRight because I value that more than anything else in my life.   Second, however, you ask if we're a slob in others, or does the lack in the second detract from the first.  If I stick with my belief in the first answer, there's no way that the second, or third, or any other true values, will detract from the first in any fashion.  One hopes that all their values merge together to make them the person they want to be, as well as the person they hope others see them as being.  If you can achieve either of those, then you're living a pretty good life. <em>Mitch's last blog post..<a href='http://www.ttmitchellconsulting.com/Mitchblog/2008/06/29/blacks-and-whites-think-differently-duh/' rel="nofollow">Blacks And Whites Think Differently; Duh!</a></em> Well, the topic and then the follow up question are two different things, so I’m going to answer them that way.
 
First, I don’t know that a person can have a “sole” value, otherwise they’d be pretty shallow, but my “main” value has always been loyalty, especially if there’s been no real reason to not be loyal.  My wife will calls me Dudley DoRight because I value that more than anything else in my life.
 
Second, however, you ask if we’re a slob in others, or does the lack in the second detract from the first.  If I stick with my belief in the first answer, there’s no way that the second, or third, or any other true values, will detract from the first in any fashion.  One hopes that all their values merge together to make them the person they want to be, as well as the person they hope others see them as being.  If you can achieve either of those, then you’re living a pretty good life.

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]]> By: Barbara http://www.barbaraling.com/insights/whats-your-sole-value-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-971 Barbara Sat, 05 Jul 2008 16:24:50 +0000 http://www.barbaraling.com/?p=280#comment-971 <p>Sometimes that is tough to recognize.</p> <p>But it sure is character-building.</p> <p>Painful...but character-building. <img onclick="grin(':grin:');" src="../../wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":grin:" /></p> <p>Enjoy,</p> <p>Barbara</p> Sometimes that is tough to recognize.

But it sure is character-building.

Painful…but character-building. :grin:

Enjoy,

Barbara

]]> By: Sarah http://www.barbaraling.com/insights/whats-your-sole-value-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-970 Sarah Sat, 05 Jul 2008 16:22:43 +0000 http://www.barbaraling.com/?p=280#comment-970 Those are some good ideas you share. I know I get hung up on how I'd like my friends to be instead of accepting them the way they are. I'm trying to catch myself when I do that. Those are some good ideas you share. I know I get hung up on how I’d like my friends to be instead of accepting them the way they are.

I’m trying to catch myself when I do that.

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