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Where was I?
Ah yes, Saturday!
But first:
Ever have an insane desire just to make things happen?
Or even better… design your own routine so that it becomes second nature… and then scale it when time allows?
As the minutes and days and years and centuries go by, sometimes you find yourself losing that critical spark which energized your prior business during uncountable years in the past.
Thing is, sometimes, through no fault of your own, that spark … well, it diminishes.
Either you find yourself jaded about the way of the world in general….
… or your health decreases to the point that simply managing a daily routine becomes far more difficult…
… or other things occur in your personal life that douses your business spark until it is unable ti re-ignite.
What do you do then?
Well, several things, I would reckon.
First, I’d say you should give yourself time to mourn and find out *exactly* what you’ve lost.
It could be the excitement of passing on what you have learned….
… or it could be that you’re simply tired.
Whatever it is, chances are, a part of you resist acknowledging that current fact, and your refusal to admit it to your self could be holding you back and preventing you from leveling up when required.
Thus, be honest with yourself. If it helps, write down what you feel you’ve lost, why it bothers you, and all that jazz. Really get a “feel” for what needs to be fixed in your life.
Once that is done, give yourself a few minutes or hours or even a day or 8374573 days to recognize that these things happen and make peace with it.
Remember – the lack *now* doesn’t detract from your past and current successes…. all it means is that you must turn on a dime and see just how else you can regroup and rebound.
Whatever you realize from that honesty, again… write it down. Perhaps have a chat with people you *trust* about it. Get it out of your system…. chances are then, the weight you are feeling *now* will decrease.
Next, ask yourself:
“Jeepers self, what can I do NOW?”
This is actually a very character-building thing to consider. For example, I used to be able to dash off 2 products every week, zero issues with that…. but health and thingees have definitely made that something that will never return.
Once you’ve mourned what is gone, take that knowledge, wrap it up in a red bow, wish it well, and then consider a ‘realistic’ way to bounce back.
Just because things have changed… it doesn’t mean your current lack will leave a hole in your soul and psyche and money-making abilities that will never be filled!
Instead, if you still enjoy your skillset, but times have changed and it’s impossible to return to your super productive past…
Revisit what you *can* do and plan your actions accordingly.
What used to take 10 minutes, might take 10 hours.
That’s okay. Use that knowledge to *plan*.
What used to require days to outline might now require months.
Can you outsource any part of your work right now? If so, do so!
Next, i’d internalize with the force of a thousand suns…..
NEVER compare yourself negatively with your colleagues.
Rebound in the very best way *you* can… and ignore the tweebleheads who you think are outstripping you and laughing at your troubles.
Chances are… the only person who *really* knows what you are going thru is *you*… and quite frankly, you’re not that important for others to spend their lives dwelling on your successes or failures (in other words, if you have a launch disaster, or you publicized a challenges at which you failed dismally, folks might say, sucks to be you!, but then move on with their *own* deliverables.
And finally, what about regaining that lost spark?
You know, it could be that at different stages in your life, your spark *evolves*. What gave you pleasure and excitement *then*….
… might leave you cold *now*.
And that’s okay! Honor what you had, honor what you’ve lost… and give yourself permission to be open-minded about future adventures and goals.
Need other ideas for rising like a phoenix? Consider:
tinybuddha.com/blog/getting-back-spark-every-day-feels-hard/
tinybuddha.com/blog/reclaimed-happiness-got-spark-life-back/
www.dumblittleman.com/5-ways-to-get-your-spark-back/
www.entrepreneur.com/article/272736
Your takeaway?
Life happens. Desires deflate. Businesses change. Heck, *you* change!
And that’s okay. Give yourself permission to honor the best *you* , you can be….
And allow that doused spark to become reincarnated into something grand.
Enjoy!
And today, it’s Saturday!
Actually, gnope, it’s still Friday around 10:39.
And what a freakin’ heck of a day was Friday.
I ended up having only 4 hours of sleep, so I decided to dedicate myself to going to sleep at 8pm.
Given that it’s now, oh, closer to 11pm than 8pm, you can see how great *that* is doing.
Sigh.
Anywhos, did get to the pool yesterday….
… and afterwards, had a lunch date at Costco with the husband.
He insisted on getting the car for me:
That way, I didn’t have to hobble my way over to the car.
Extremely thoughtful he was. I had a moment of wanting to go all ornery-like – “I can still walk! Let me know!” but managed to smoosh down that desire as well. 🙂
I guess I’m no longer 27 and my body is rebelling about that hard-like.
I’ll probably write more about it tomorrow, but wow….
…. sometimes it’s really tough to keep being instrumental in motivating others, when all you want to do is hide under blankets and come out in, say, 2020.
But I did share:
Your takeaway?
Even if you feel like roasted toenails….
Just do a plus one on your activities… it’s okay to take care of yourself first, sometimes.
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Ah yes, Friday!
But first:
Ever have an insane urge to broadcast to the entire world your reading preferences?
No?
Well then, did you know you might be doing that this VERY instant… unknowingly?
I sure didn’t which is why I greatly enjoyed:
It’s a huge eyeopener, it is, giving you tips for:
Deleting your Echo recordings because of this joyful fact:
“…What you might not know is that Amazon records everything you say to Alexa and stores an audio recording of every voice command you’ve issued, not just in the device itself, but on Amazon’s servers….”
Be still, my beating heart!
and also:
Making your wishlists private (default is public, so if you’re wishing for, say, My Little Ponies, or Moose Training Made Simple, or How To Uncover Unclothed Males at Planet Fitness (aka abc7ny.com/3812807/ )
etc., other goodies as well.
Plus, if you crave more Amazon privacy goodness, check out:
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(it still boggles my mind that people willingly let smart assistants into their home, but hey. Convenience over privacy, woohoo!)
Your takeaway?
Do your best to keep your private interests… private.
Your ego will thank you for it.
Enjoy!
And today, it’s Friday!
Actually, no, its still Thursday around 10pm.
Most excellent day!
Today, the husband and I celebrated a grand anniversary:
And here’s what I wrote:
If you’d like to know the secret to a lasting marriage, it’s this:
1.) Always take ownership of your own feelings.
2.) Remember pride is a very lonely companion at night.
3.) Always have the best intentions towards each other… and always realize that if you are knee-jerking any reaction
4.) *Listen* more than talk
5.) Let your spouse know they’re appreciated!
6.) When you’re wrong, apologize.
7.) It’s takes two to make a marriage work… and 2 to break it up. Always keep communications open as much as possible and drop your ego as well.
Plus other thingees, too, I’m sure. 
Your takeaway? The best marriage isn’t between 2 perfect peoples… it’s between 2 flawed peoples who are perfect for each other. 
Yep….
It’s been a grand journey. Neither of us are perfect whatsoever….
… but both of us love each other enough that the imperfections are well worth dealing with.
I’m a very lucky woman indeed.
Your takeaway?
Never settle.
It might take you time to find the right person… but it’s always worth it when you do!
Let’s see, what else….
Been having some intense talks with one of my younger kids, who is managing to channel my eldest from highschool.
Wow. Looks like I have to deal with that one more time. It’s worth it, mind you…. kids are bound to make missteps while growing but yep….
Character building indeed. We all eventually grow into the grand person we’re meant to become.
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Ah yes, Thursday!
But first:
Ever have life backfist you in the teeth to the point that you simply feel totally helpless?
Unable to kick fate in the right direction?
Totally immobilized by the ghosts of your past?
I’ve seen several posts alluding to that these days (although admittedly, they all possessed a distinctive lack of Kaijuness), and you know what I recommend in such cases?
Climb into your mental Jaeger and don’t forget you have a sword!
In other words:
Chances are, there’s a weeeee bit of a possibility that when you feel all is irrevocably lost…
… you’ve forgotten the fact that as of today, you’ve survived 100% of your past Worst Days EVER!
This will be no different.
Wait, hang on – there *will* be one smidgen of a difference…
And it’s this.
You’ll give yourself permission to realize that just because all seems lost at this very second…. a *new* second comes, one second later.
And then one second tumbles on by later after that.
In other words – the future is *always* in motion and the past is just that.
The *past*.
Remember, so long as you are above ground, the odds are tilted greatly in your favor.
So how do you not only survive… but build up to actually thrive?
==> You take things one day at a time.
Or one hour at a time.
Or heck, even one minute at a time!
You patch yourself up with whatever mental/physical duct tape works the best (for me, it’s binging on either The Last Jedi or Pacific Rim, while dining on the finest of Chinese take-out (spare ribs) and also Nerds candy) and you tell yourself:
==> “Self, I’ve *got* this.”
Sure, you might think you’re lying to yourself but you know something?
Personal white lies (this one time!) assist you in *letting go* of the helpless feelings…
… and can give you time and opportunity to actually rally your energies and hope and get yourself *mentally* into a better place … starting today.
(one suggestion though – because everyone has failed mind-reading 101, do give a headsup to the people who love you the most, about what you’re going thru. Communications shine!).
In closing, you *always* have the ability to cancel the Apocalyse.
You simply need to give yourself permission to start.
Enjoy!
ps: to appreciate the sword comment:
And the painfully slow plasma cannons:
And canceling the Apocalypse?
🙂
And now, it’s Thursday!
Actually, no, its still Wednesday in the afternoon.
Ended up staying ALL of yesterday, finally could sleep around 6am.
So today… smoosh.
It happens. Hopefully tomorrow I will be back to full force!
Your takeaway?
You’re probably not 27 anymore.
Take your time when needing it.
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And thats all…
Because….
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Of course you do!
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