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=== Start Ongoing Goodies! ===


Today in 19731:  Skylab, the United States’ first space station, is launched.
Why we gave up space exploration… I have no idea

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Self Confidence Roadmap
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and

How to be paid to create 97/197 buck products
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Where was I?

Ah yes,  Tuesday!

But first:

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Ever wake up one day and wish that not only could click on all the ads you can eat… 

… but you could also interact via your voice on all the ads that you hear? 

As incredible as it sounds, Spotify just announced today that they’re testing out a Brand! New! Voice! Enabled! Exclamation! Point! , otherwise known as voice-enabled “ad experiences.” 

Thus when a voice enabled ad is served, listeners can opt to engage with it by responding “Play now!” 

To wit: 

“….That voice command activates the playlist or podcast, which also contain additional ads. If the listener doesn’t respond or says something other than the “Play Now” command, the current audio content will resume as usual….” 

Fascinating indeed. 

So fascinating, as a matter of fact, that I checked out 

voice activated ads 

and came across: 

www.nbclosangeles.com/news/tech/Are-Smart-Speakers-Planting-Ads-On-Our-Social-Media-Profiles-509353291.html 

extremereach.com/blog/the-future-of-voice-technology-and-what-it-means-for-advertising/ 

www.wordstream.com/blog/ws/2017/03/14/google-voice-search 

Facinating stuff indeed. 

And as much as I hate to admit it, it probably will become a Big Thing as opposed to dying a short, whimpering wah-like existence. So how can yo profit from such a thing? 

Several ways: 

1.) You can teach people how to create the technology behind smart thingees like Alexa: 

developer.amazon.com/blogs/alexa/post/a1080dd9-2a28-46b8-8fce-1dfd556b50ff/how-to-build-your-first-alexa-skill-5-steps-to-get-started 

www.techrepublic.com/article/how-developers-can-make-money-off-of-amazon-alexa-skills/ 

2.) You could learn how to optimize your site for voice search: 

www.terakeet.com/blog/voice-search-optimization-seo/ 

hackernoon.com/6-steps-to-prepare-your-mobile-site-for-voice-search-in-2019-164fef42b725 

www.bestseo.net/how-to-optimize-content-for-voice-search/ 

3.) You could create a source regarding online music streaming: 

Well forget that one unless you’re a musician yourself. 

Your takeaway? 

The mere fact that Ads are now being considered for user interaction (beyond ‘getting the click’ is something that should keep your ears open for future marketing abilities. 

After all, the future is always in motion. 

Enjoy!

========================= ==============

And….. Where was I?

It’s Tuesday!

Yep, Tuesday.

First, if you use WhatsApp… delete or update it.

And!

Today I go to the dentist to work on my lower jaw (all together now…. yaaayyyyyyyy).

The top teeth fixies, I will admit…. were fixed really well.

The challenges with the bottom teeth fixes…

Basically what’s left of the tooth has to be grown into basically a cute little fang.

I’ll leave it at that.  🙂

‘sides that, I’m getting super jaded at stuff these days…

It might be that I’m getting closer to menopause and really just am very very very … jaded.

This makes it difficult to be inspiring, which is probably why I took off all of last evening.

But ’tis another day and another day to say, the future is unwritten and Make Things Happen.

So I will.

In other words, I got some Moms day cards from my kids!

They know me well – they drew it from Star Trek Discovery:

🙂

Your takeaway?

The sun always rises.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

🙂 And want you to see the Official Teaser: Disney’s Maleficent: Mistress of Evil – In Theaters October 18!?

Of course you do!

🙂

And our morning art/humor?

Heehee

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be PLR  (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NEXT:

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
…. please sign up at
askbling.com/4alert
to get these in real time. Thanks!

=======================

AND!! Please visit askbling.com/whitelist  and whitelist btl@barbaraling.com – this will ensure you always get these morning goodies. Thanks!

=======================

And! I started a private Internet Marketing Authority Course over at  askbling.com/btlclass1  … Click below to start the adventure!

Bonus Class!
=======================

And! I started a private SuperAffiliate Course over at askbling.com/superaff30 … Click below to start the adventure!

Super Affliate
=======================

And! I started a private IM Coaching Waiting List over at askblings.com/btlcoach  … Click below to get on the said waiting list!

=======================

And here we go!

Presenting:

Detox PLR?

52 lessons?

Authority?

and 2 more… can you guess?

And let’s begin!

Want you Newbie Friendly: 52 profitable IM lessons that show you (875 pages plus?

Well then!

_________________________

Newbie Friendly: 52 profitable IM lessons that show you (875 pages plus!

See the big huge THUD here!

See the  direct link there!

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Nifty!

Whats that?  You want AliShopper! (Aliexpress and Shopify and eCom made easy) for newbies?

Well then!

_________________________
AliShopper! (Aliexpress and Shopify and eCom made easy) for newbies!

See how this can truly help you expand here!

See the direct link there! 

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Sweet!

What’s that?  You want Detox PLR Business in a Box?

Well then!

_________________________
Detox PLR Business in a Box!

See the excellent Business in a Box here here!

See  the  direct link there!

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Jeepers!

What’s that?   You want How to be paid to create 97/197 buck products?

Well then!

________________________
How to be paid to create 97/197 buck products!

See the sheer massive THUD here!

See the direct link there!

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Coffee!

And finally:

_______________________
Pinterest Software!! 

See the benefits you can derive here!

See the direct link there!

Wheeeeee!  (btw, like this newsletter?  Why not share it with your friends today? And don’t forget:  Visit askblings.com/whitelist to learn how and then come back to read, thanks!)

================================================
Don’t forget yesterdays:

Where was I?

Ah yes,  Sunday!

But first:
========================= ==============

Ever have an insane urge to grow your email list members past the number of dollars the movie “Avengers: Endgame” has earned? 

Of course you have! 

Which is one reason why 

paperform.co/blog/email-list-sign-ups 

is rather coolios in a nifty sort of way: it shows you not 1, not 2 but 10(!) excellent list building methods including: 

Give customers irresistible incentives to sign up 

Do nothing but ask for their email address 

Create multiple landing pages (I myself have over 700) 

and more. 

But! 

The thing is… 

The email list you build… 

Well, it will be more useless than a spaghetti strainer is for carrying 3 quarts of your favorite beverages during a 3 mile jog IF you never MAIL that list! 

It never ceases to amaze me how many people DO build lists but then never mail them! 

Remember – building a list is to help YOU build YOUR business. 

And just like its a privilege to have people on your list… its a privilege as well for them to be on YOUR list! 

It’s a 2-way street. 

And those people who cannot respect that – they do not deserve the wisdom you have to give them. 

You know… the above would make for a grand one problem one solution report as well! You could boil it down to: 

Step 1.) Give yourself permission to value what you have to share 

Step 2.) Armed with that, research list building and build a list in the best way that resonates with *you* 

Step 3.) Zero in on a newsletter/email structure… and mail your new list! 

Need other ideas? Resources for the above include: 

www.barbaraling.com/insights/how-to-mail-your-list-with-confidence/42257 

www.monster.com/career-advice/article/7-words-that-make-you-sound-less-confident-in-emails-0916 

smartblogger.com/email-list-building/ 

Your takeaway? 

Building your list is a great way to increase your bottom line profits… 

Why not start that today? 

Enjoy!

========================= ==============

And….. Where was I?

It’s Monday!

Actually, no, still Sunday at around 6pm or so.

and as you might remember, it was Mother’s Day yesterday.

I wrote about Toxic moms, and also wrote:

=-=-= One of the Best Types of Mom to honor =-=-=

Ever been blessed by being raised by the perfect mom?

Nope, me neither.

And it’s taken me almost 8 years (since her death) to make peace with several aspects of her parenting.

However, now that the bone condition that she had is manifesting itself rather unhappily in me, my perspectives on what makes a ‘good mom’ has been redefined bigtime.

You see:

It’s been said you can never understand what someone else is going thru until you walk in their shoes, you know?

That is sooo true indeed.

If there’s one thing my Mom was among the several billion other things, it was stubborn.

She lacked the ability (she truly did) to apologize even when she was obviously 140% wrong.

I managed to break that cycle with my family, and am proud to say that whenever I realize I *did* goof – I admit it, take ownership of it, and see how I can best make amends.

But there’s another thing my mom taught me, which I never could understand prior until hearing about (what I’m about to reveal) it last week.

And it’s this.

There really *can* come a time when, enough is enough…. and if you accept demands by kids that you MUST change *your* behavior because your ideas are different from theirs …

… Well, not only are you doing them a HUGE disservice …

You’re also seeing behavior that is just as fanatical as are the hardliners in politics.

Such behavior should never be rewarded.

I was reminded of this a week or so ago, when a friend of mine shared the latest in family drama. Her kid insisted she change her beliefs to align with hers. And when my friend did not, the kid chose to sever communications.

My reaction?

Let the kid go.

Some things cannot be learned – they must be *experienced* before wisdom has the opportunity to introduce itself and actually become a welcome guest.

So, for all those moms like my friend, I wish you all a Happy Mother’s Day for the following reason:

One of a mom’s 98347753 roles is to *guide*.

It is NOT to be *spineless*.

And sometimes, the relationship between moms and kids (heck, parents and kids) can go thru *extremely* strained times (I remember during the high school years, my eldest and I would have figurative knock-down drag-out fights more drama-worthy than Detective Pikachu.

But now? Now, life has granted him the wisdom to see what eluded him before… and I can’t imagine life without him).

So here’s to you Moms who have done the very very very VERY best you knew/know how, even if your kids haughtily declare you should have done still more. Seriously… what the hell do they know… not having lived your life themselves?

Yep. What I just said.

Remember:

Life, luckily, generally tends to impart … *wisdom*.

In this case, it’s the wisdom to recognize quite how utterly *naive* it is to believe you *know* how others should behave, without having *experienced* their lives.

In closing, be good to yourself! Remember that the future is always in motion, unless your friendly neighborhood low-flying asteroid decides to remove you from the plane of this existence.

And *never* let your kids try to blackmail you with their beliefs about how life *should* be… especially when they lack living experience outside their own perfectly shiny ivory tower.

Coffee?”

What do you think?

‘Sides that, life was pretty good yesterday – unfortunately due to very poor sleep, I didn’t get to the movies (wah!) but I was able to relax…

… which was almost as good.  🙂

Plus… this is ending tonight!

It’s pretty cool – took me some time to fine tune it just right but yep….

Very happy with how it turned out!

Your takeaway?

Don’t be a spineless tweeblehead.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

🙂 And want you to see the FOOD ART CHALLENGE & How To Make the Best Avengers Pokemon Detective Pikachu Pancake Art?

Of course you do!

That was beyond hysterical.

And our morning art/humor?

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be Traffic (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NEXT:

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
…. please sign up at
askbling.com/4alert
to get these in real time. Thanks!

=======================

AND!! Please visit askbling.com/whitelist  and whitelist btl@barbaraling.com – this will ensure you always get these morning goodies. Thanks!

=======================

And! I started a private Internet Marketing Authority Course over at  askbling.com/btlclass1  … Click below to start the adventure!

Bonus Class!
=======================

And! I started a private SuperAffiliate Course over at askbling.com/superaff30 … Click below to start the adventure!

Super Affliate
=======================

And! I started a private IM Coaching Waiting List over at askblings.com/btlcoach  … Click below to get on the said waiting list!

=======================

And here we go!

Presenting:

Weight Loss PLR?

Twaffic?

Big Ticket PLR?

and 2 more… can you guess?

And let’s begin!

Want you 70+ Ways to Build a Lst (ends TONIGHT)?

Well then!

_________________________

List Building Easy Made!

See all the exciting details here!

See the  direct link there!

===========
============
===========

Nifty!

Whats that?  You want Did you miss: 20 done-for-you 7 day eClasses.. PLUS the Reverse Funnel.. for this low of a price? PLR Included ?

Well then!

_________________________
Did you miss: 20 done-for-you 7 day eClasses.. PLUS the Reverse Funnel.. for this low of a price? PLR Included!! !

See how you can use this to jumpstart your profits here!

See the direct link there! 

===========
============
===========

Sweet!

What’s that?  You want The latest traffic software…. just went LIVE?

Well then!

_________________________
The latest traffic software…. just went LIVE!

See the unexpected twists you’ll experience here!

See  the  direct link there!

===========
============
===========

Jeepers!

What’s that?   You want Fresh PLR – Weight loss made simple? (Amanda Craven’s latest, marketplace intell, more! ?

Well then!

________________________
Fresh PLR – Weight loss made simple? (Amanda Craven’s latest, marketplace intell, more! !

See the additional market intell you’ll be given here!

See the direct link there!

===========
============
===========

Coffee!

And finally:

_______________________
Detox PLR!! 

See the clean eating and other goodie health thingees with PLR here!

See the direct link there!

Wheeeeee!  (btw, like this newsletter?  Why not share it with your friends today? And don’t forget:  Visit askblings.com/whitelist to learn how and then come back to read, thanks!)

================================================
Don’t forget yesterdays:

Where was I?

Ah yes,  Sunday!

But first:
========================= ==============

Ever have an insane urge to grow your email list members past the number of dollars the movie “Avengers: Endgame” has earned? 

Of course you have! 

Which is one reason why 

paperform.co/blog/email-list-sign-ups 

is rather coolios in a nifty sort of way: it shows you not 1, not 2 but 10(!) excellent list building methods including: 

Give customers irresistible incentives to sign up 

Do nothing but ask for their email address 

Create multiple landing pages (I myself have over 700) 

and more. 

But! 

The thing is… 

The email list you build… 

Well, it will be more useless than a spaghetti strainer is for carrying 3 quarts of your favorite beverages during a 3 mile jog IF you never MAIL that list! 

It never ceases to amaze me how many people DO build lists but then never mail them! 

Remember – building a list is to help YOU build YOUR business. 

And just like its a privilege to have people on your list… its a privilege as well for them to be on YOUR list! 

It’s a 2-way street. 

And those people who cannot respect that – they do not deserve the wisdom you have to give them. 

You know… the above would make for a grand one problem one solution report as well! You could boil it down to: 

Step 1.) Give yourself permission to value what you have to share 

Step 2.) Armed with that, research list building and build a list in the best way that resonates with *you* 

Step 3.) Zero in on a newsletter/email structure… and mail your new list! 

Need other ideas? Resources for the above include: 

www.barbaraling.com/insights/how-to-mail-your-list-with-confidence/42257 

www.monster.com/career-advice/article/7-words-that-make-you-sound-less-confident-in-emails-0916 

smartblogger.com/email-list-building/ 

Your takeaway? 

Building your list is a great way to increase your bottom line profits… 

Why not start that today? 

Enjoy!

========================= ==============

And….. Where was I?

It’s Monday!

Actually, no, still Sunday at around 6pm or so.

and as you might remember, it was Mother’s Day yesterday.

I wrote about Toxic moms, and also wrote:

=-=-= One of the Best Types of Mom to honor =-=-=

Ever been blessed by being raised by the perfect mom?

Nope, me neither.

And it’s taken me almost 8 years (since her death) to make peace with several aspects of her parenting.

However, now that the bone condition that she had is manifesting itself rather unhappily in me, my perspectives on what makes a ‘good mom’ has been redefined bigtime.

You see:

It’s been said you can never understand what someone else is going thru until you walk in their shoes, you know?

That is sooo true indeed.

If there’s one thing my Mom was among the several billion other things, it was stubborn.

She lacked the ability (she truly did) to apologize even when she was obviously 140% wrong.

I managed to break that cycle with my family, and am proud to say that whenever I realize I *did* goof – I admit it, take ownership of it, and see how I can best make amends.

But there’s another thing my mom taught me, which I never could understand prior until hearing about (what I’m about to reveal) it last week.

And it’s this.

There really *can* come a time when, enough is enough…. and if you accept demands by kids that you MUST change *your* behavior because your ideas are different from theirs …

… Well, not only are you doing them a HUGE disservice …

You’re also seeing behavior that is just as fanatical as are the hardliners in politics.

Such behavior should never be rewarded.

I was reminded of this a week or so ago, when a friend of mine shared the latest in family drama. Her kid insisted she change her beliefs to align with hers. And when my friend did not, the kid chose to sever communications.

My reaction?

Let the kid go.

Some things cannot be learned – they must be *experienced* before wisdom has the opportunity to introduce itself and actually become a welcome guest.

So, for all those moms like my friend, I wish you all a Happy Mother’s Day for the following reason:

One of a mom’s 98347753 roles is to *guide*.

It is NOT to be *spineless*.

And sometimes, the relationship between moms and kids (heck, parents and kids) can go thru *extremely* strained times (I remember during the high school years, my eldest and I would have figurative knock-down drag-out fights more drama-worthy than Detective Pikachu.

But now? Now, life has granted him the wisdom to see what eluded him before… and I can’t imagine life without him).

So here’s to you Moms who have done the very very very VERY best you knew/know how, even if your kids haughtily declare you should have done still more. Seriously… what the hell do they know… not having lived your life themselves?

Yep. What I just said.

Remember:

Life, luckily, generally tends to impart … *wisdom*.

In this case, it’s the wisdom to recognize quite how utterly *naive* it is to believe you *know* how others should behave, without having *experienced* their lives.

In closing, be good to yourself! Remember that the future is always in motion, unless your friendly neighborhood low-flying asteroid decides to remove you from the plane of this existence.

And *never* let your kids try to blackmail you with their beliefs about how life *should* be… especially when they lack living experience outside their own perfectly shiny ivory tower.

Coffee?”

What do you think?

‘Sides that, life was pretty good yesterday – unfortunately due to very poor sleep, I didn’t get to the movies (wah!) but I was able to relax…

… which was almost as good.  🙂

Plus… this is ending tonight!

It’s pretty cool – took me some time to fine tune it just right but yep….

Very happy with how it turned out!

Your takeaway?

Don’t be a spineless tweeblehead.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

🙂 And want you to see the FOOD ART CHALLENGE & How To Make the Best Avengers Pokemon Detective Pikachu Pancake Art?

Of course you do!

That was beyond hysterical.

And our morning art/humor?

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be Traffic (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NEXT:

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
…. please sign up at
askbling.com/4alert
to get these in real time. Thanks!

=======================

AND!! Please visit askbling.com/whitelist  and whitelist btl@barbaraling.com – this will ensure you always get these morning goodies. Thanks!

=======================

And! I started a private Internet Marketing Authority Course over at  askbling.com/btlclass1  … Click below to start the adventure!

Bonus Class!
=======================

And! I started a private SuperAffiliate Course over at askbling.com/superaff30 … Click below to start the adventure!

Super Affliate
=======================

And! I started a private IM Coaching Waiting List over at askblings.com/btlcoach  … Click below to get on the said waiting list!

=======================

And here we go!

Presenting:

Weight Loss PLR?

Twaffic?

Big Ticket PLR?

and 2 more… can you guess?

And let’s begin!

Want you 70+ Ways to Build a Lst (ends TONIGHT)?

Well then!

_________________________

List Building Easy Made!

See all the exciting details here!

See the  direct link there!

===========
============
===========

Nifty!

Whats that?  You want Did you miss: 20 done-for-you 7 day eClasses.. PLUS the Reverse Funnel.. for this low of a price? PLR Included ?

Well then!

_________________________
Did you miss: 20 done-for-you 7 day eClasses.. PLUS the Reverse Funnel.. for this low of a price? PLR Included!! !

See how you can use this to jumpstart your profits here!

See the direct link there! 

===========
============
===========

Sweet!

What’s that?  You want The latest traffic software…. just went LIVE?

Well then!

_________________________
The latest traffic software…. just went LIVE!

See the unexpected twists you’ll experience here!

See  the  direct link there!

===========
============
===========

Jeepers!

What’s that?   You want Fresh PLR – Weight loss made simple? (Amanda Craven’s latest, marketplace intell, more! ?

Well then!

________________________
Fresh PLR – Weight loss made simple? (Amanda Craven’s latest, marketplace intell, more! !

See the additional market intell you’ll be given here!

See the direct link there!

===========
============
===========

Coffee!

And finally:

_______________________
Detox PLR!! 

See the clean eating and other goodie health thingees with PLR here!

See the direct link there!

Wheeeeee!  (btw, like this newsletter?  Why not share it with your friends today? And don’t forget:  Visit askblings.com/whitelist to learn how and then come back to read, thanks!)

================================================
Don’t forget yesterdays:

Where was I?

Ah yes,  Sunday!

But first:
========================= ==============

Ever wish you had the top authority sites in your niche directing bleeploads of traffic to all of your resources? 

Your social sites… 

Your industry profiles…. 

And of course, your business site! 

Now, you might think that link building these days has gone the way of the basselope from the 1980s (recently seen in full blooming dandelion patches, mind you), but *quality* link building will never go out of style! 

www.jeffbullas.com/is-link-building-a-important/ 

has a rather insightful article about this that includes such ideas as: 

Be game to guest blog 

Conduct a thorough post-mortem of competitors’ backlinks 

Turn brand love into links 

Thinking about making a 1 problem 1 solution report? Consider drilling down the idea of link building into Link Building Tools like so: 

Step 1.) Decide on Free or Paid Link Building Tools 

Step 2.) Learn what are Bad Places to Receive Links From 

Step 3.) Create Your own Link Building Schedule and Deploy! 

Some resources for that can include: 

www.matthewwoodward.co.uk/tips/best-link-building-tools-tips/ 

www.quicksprout.com/broken-link-building-guide/ 

www.searchenginejournal.com/bad-links/297315/ 

Your takeaway? 

Link building is still very much alive BUT….. 

…you really want to go for quality instead of quantity today, even if it takes more time to achieve. 

Enjoy!

========================= ==============

And….. Where was I?

It’s Sunday and…

Happy Mom’s Day if you celebrate it!

Thing is…

Not everyone’s mom is a great or even good mom.

I am very lucky in that mine was.  Like all parents, she made her mistakes… but I am confident she did the very very best she knew how.

After all, most parents generally do NOT wake up and say, Jeepers!  Gonna mess up my family today!

Right?

Still, though….

Things happen.   and sometimes, one has the hell of having a toxic mother as well.

If YOU have or had a toxic mom (or dad for that matter)….

Please do NOT feel that her issues were because of *you*.

Most likely, her issues were because of HER.

HER ISSUES!!!

If you can find it in yourself to forgive and move on, that might be the best way to move your own life forward.

And if not, these things happen…. and perhaps next year you can make that change.

I wrote more about it as well:

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It’s Mother’s Day here in the States!
 
Happy Mom’s Day for you if you/yours celebrate it….
 
BUT if you have a toxic mom, it’s ok NOT to feel happy joy joy.
 
When I was growing up, one never missed Mothers Day.
 
Nor Mom’s birdieDay (which is why Honorable Son 1 was born one day before my birthday – I figured that by the time I was in my 80s, I’d want my own darned day to myself. So even though he was due on my birthday… he arrived one day sooner. But I digress).
 
Mom never really liked flowers on Mothers Day (but weird plants were appreciated. I remember one day my brother gave her a bulb-like unitentifiable “thing” – 40 years later its still growing in my home). Creative gifts were always liked.
 
Now that I’m a mom, I realize that what *I* want… is peace, harmony and laughter in my home.
 
I’m extremely lucky that for the most part… the relationships I have with my kids are solid, positive and rather… grand, all around.
 
That being said…
 
There are some folk out there who have toxic moms.
 
Some folk who have been raised to always doubt themselves…
 
… and to those people I say:
 
It’s not you.
 
It’s never *been* you.
 
Being a mom, alas, never automatically gifts women with wisdom and sanity….
 
… some women simply never were cut out to be moms.
 
But they still have kids….
 
… and those kids suffer from the lack of compassion and empathy a toxic parent emits.
 
So if you simply cannot wish your Mom a Happy Mother’s Day because of the toxicity…
 
That’s *okay.*
 
We all do the very best we can but yep… sometimes the collateral damage feels just too great.
 
And if you need help in dealing with Toxic Moms, consider:
 
 
 
 
 
 
Your takeaway?
 
Sane mom or no might you have… we are all worthy of appreciation and love.
 
Do your best to pass on that love and appreciation wherever you can…
 
Happy Moms Day to all!

What do you think?

Today for me will be lots of taking it easy.

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Never take ownership of toxic folk.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

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