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Where was I?

Ah yes, Tuesday!

But first:

Ever feel like you’ve fallen short of communications with either those you love, or those who have to work with, or your colleagues in the industry or the like? 

IF so, how do you make peace with yourself over the past? 

For me, personally, it’s by realizing that one really cannot *change* the past. 

Nor can one simply keep knee-jerking in response to the same provocations again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again. 

It’s been said that doing the same thing 1,000 times and expecting a different outcome (heh. I just noticed – the first syllable and opposite meaning of ‘outcome’ is ‘income’ which means more buy buttons, but I digress) is the height of idjutness. 

So where DO you go, AFTER you’ve finally internalized that you cannot change the past? 

You use that *very same* past as a diveboard for the future of course (I mean, heck, why go timidly via stepping stones when you can blast that sucker to infinity and beyond!). 

And how do you do *that*? 

You start by forgiving yourself. 

And you continue by realizing you truly ARE only human… and as such, creating brilliantly glorious mistakes that makes the sun seem like a frail, burned out lightbulb in comparison (unless you’re passing by the Solar Energy display in Costco and hear the salesman ask that nice lady wearing the green gym outfit, don’t you want to plug your heating bill directly into the sun)… 

… well, it’s kinda sorta to be expected. 

From there, you leap joyfully to the understanding that while you cannot control how other people act, you CAN choose to control how you *react*. 

And *that’s* what gives you the courage to admit – “Yep, I F’d up. If I could change the past, I would, but I can’t, so I’m not going to waste my precious moments on this planet angsting about spilled coffee. Nor am I going to immerse myself in my echo chamber that tries to hammer home, honestly I was RIGHT all along! 

Gnope. Instead, I’m going to admit my weakness and take pride in the fact I’m self-confident enough to say, I’m sorry, I was wrong…. and then I’m going to *let it go*. 

I cannot force you to accept my apology. Nor do I want to. That has to come from within.” 

And you take note to yourself just HOW you messed up and do your darndest NOT to make the same mistake in the future. 

Now, flawed human beans that we are, chances are you will mess up again no matter what. 

And that is okay. 

Because alas, sometimes it takes more than 1 lesson (perhaps more like 845 of ’em) to truly *learn*. 

Your takeaway? 

Be the best *you* that you can be. Don’t beat yourself up over what you got wrong yesterday. 

Instead, prop yourself up knowing you’ll be better… tomorrow. 

Enjoy!

Good stuff!

Where was I?

Ah yes, it’s Tuesday!

Yep, really Tuesday indeed.

Yesterday was most character-building – wasn’t able to get to the gym BUT… was able to do 2 30 minute biking sessions at home.

All together now – wheee!  🙂

Plus, I was inspired to write:

Ever hear all those self-motivational thingees that say it’s not your fault that you’re fat or depressed or anxious or whatever? 

Or what about… 

It’s not your fault that you have yet to earn a dollar from your online endeavors to this date? 

Well, here’s the thing. 

To be honest, that fact is irrelevant. 

And while indeed, it might NOT be your fault that you’re fat/depressed/anxious/etc. (ie, your genetic makeup might make it really tough to lose weight or exercise or approach ‘happiness’ from a different angle… 

… or that its not your fault that you have yet to build a 6 figure business online… 

The plain fact is, nobody *else* can force you to fix whatever is standing between you and your desired goals (personal or business). 

In other words… 

You really DO own it. 

You can have the entire world pulling for you but if you don’t care enough to make those critical changes yourself… 

… you’re just going to continue to spiral down into depression/bleakness and all around ickness. 

Sorry, but those be the facts. 

So how DO you manage to pull yourself up out of the darkness? How DO you manage to actually start seeing success online? 

It varies from person to person. 

* Some people benefit from anti-depressants/anti-anxiety meds. There should be ZERO shame to taking these – if they help you stabilize your emotions, then more power to you! So do yourself a favor and see a psychiatrist if that is something that you are willing to do (and ignore all the scamsters trying to siphon cash out of your pocket by claiming Big Pharma is out to get you, but our Big Homeopathy is just what you need and only 37 times more expensive!). 

* Other people benefit from exercise and meditation. Exercise really IS wonderful… no getting around that! But if you lose the ability to exercise well, you might give up right from the very beginning (you could be too overweight, too caught up in your own misery, etc.etc.etc.). In that case, plus one it – instead of doing 0 for exercise, walk once around your house. Or, do 5 stand-up/sit-downs in your chair. Or, park 50 feet further away from any stores you go to and add those extra 50-odd steps as a way to do just a little bit more. 

* Still other people benefit from mental toughness. They *welcome* any challenges that try to crush their life’s spirit down and view them as a martial battle that has only one outcome – they survive! Needless to say, this mindset can be quite difficult to internalize. That’s actually the one I like the most – I always view that any fires I walk thru… I benefit from the results. 

And when you treat the inner YOU… 

… you can start then to focus on the results said Inner YOU can create… aka, a successful business online! 

The main thing is this. 

If you find that doing something for YOU is not enough motivation… 

That’s okay. 

Do it instead for the people you love. 

Not only that: 

Don’t expect *other* people to solve *your* problems. 

It’s okay that you have them and its better than okay when you try to solve them! 

But if you sit by your lonesome and expect some kind of shining glorious knight (accompanied by swallows laden with coconuts) to fix the things *you* own… 

You’ll never start the see the success you deserve. 

Your takeaway? 

Take ownership. 

Take that ownership *today*. 

And start yourself on your own personal journey of self-discovery…. and future success. 

*Today*. 

Enjoy!

See, whenever life gets in the way with me…

… I always try to put into writing, aspects of my feelings.

I think I captured it rather well up there.

What else….

Oh yes!  I did take a self not really of my biking:

I think I have at least 8 pink fuzzy sock pairs.  They work really well.  🙂

Your takeaway from this perkup?

The only person to save you….

Is you.  Honor yourself with that.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

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Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

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Where was I?

Ah yes, Monday!

But first:

Ever wish brands knew exactly what you thought about their products and services and you weren’t able to hide anything whatsoever from them? 

If so, you’ll simply dance with glee regarding this gem of a study: 

How Neuromarketing Could Revolutionize the Marketing Industry 

found at 

blog.hubspot.com/marketing/neuromarketing 

In a nutshell: 

“Neuromarketing blends neuroscience and marketing to help brands gauge the emotional resonance of their current and future marketing campaigns. To do this, companies like Immersion Neuroscience and Spark Neuro have developed technology that can gauge certain neurochemical and physiological responses, which both signal emotional engagement while consuming marketing content.” 

Be still my beating heart. 

Now you might placate yourself with the following statement: 

“Jeepers self, how on earth could any marketer *know* what I’m truly feeling?” 

Hah! Foolish mortal, are you not aware that in 2017, Immersion Neuroscience developed the INBand, an armband that can measure your brain’s oxytocin levels by tracking the cadence of your Vagus — a nerve that controls your heartbeat? 

I’ll let you read the full studies on that page but yep… 

… scary stuff to consider (it really is). 

Other resources to learn more about neuromarketing and Big Brother include: 

optinmonster.com/8-neuromarketing-ideas-to-increase-your-subscribers-list/ 

hbr.org/2019/01/neuromarketing-what-you-need-to-know 

www.eminentseo.com/blog/examples-of-neuromarketing-inspire-marketing-strategy/ 

Your takeaway? 

The world is fast changing indeed… 

… and perhaps soon neuromarketing will be available to anyone willing to invest the time to research how best to apply the concepts. 

If you’re a marketer, take advantage of that. 

And if you’re not, don’t be surprised when brands learn more about you… than you yourself think you know. 

Enjoy!

 Nifty?  And where was I?

Ah yes, it’s Monday!

Actually, it’s almost Monday (’tis around 11:55pm or so).

Unfortunately, wasn’t able to get out to the gym today.  🙁

Yesterday’s sleep was notable by the lack of it, so I took things very quiet indeed.

However, I WAS inspired to write:

My gosh. The amount of childish insanity in politics these days… coupled with folks from my niche piling it on (I mean jeez, we’re marketers, we should *recognize* when we’re being fooled and pulled into the Invisible Mob of “Internet Justice”…

… well, it’s sickening.

It really is.

You’d (think/hope/pray/sacrifice cups of coffee to the gods/etc.etc.etc.) that so-called adults would/could/should behave in ways that do NOT resemble the bullying grossness of one’s younger years.

And before anyone says, oh its Trump’s fault because people follow his example…

==> Remember, we are all *adults* who own 140% of our own behavior.

I don’t care HOW Trump/Obama/theLastSeveralBillionPoliticians/etc behave…

The facts are, ideally you actually are an *adult* and *capable* of rational (I’ve given up on ‘calm’) behavior.

How can y’all (generic y’all mind you) act as you do… and not have it bother you that *that’s* the example you’re providing for your family?

It boggles the mind. It seriously does.

Btw, I was inspired to create this post when I saw one of my colleagues post a comparison photo of a horse laughing to, I suppose, a woman politician.

Women, men, gender, race, etc. – its pathetic to InternetMobIze.

What’s your take?”

Seriously, it gets unbeleepable as to just how adults will behave.

I always ask myself (when it comes to myself) – would the action I am considering….

  • Would it make my husband proud of me?
  • Would it make my parents proud of me?
  • Or my kids?

And then I base future actions off of whatever the answer to the above might be.

And regarding toxic gender stuff?

Paul had shared something I had posted over at:

And omg but…

What an, ahem, interesting discussion regarding toxicity in genders.

Quite eyeopening indeed.

What else….

Oh yes!  I woke up the Kingly Moose.

He was NOT amoosed.  🙂

Your takeaway from this perkup?

You are a light to the people who surround you.

Choose to be a light that sheds positiveness instead of slander.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

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And our morning art/humor?

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be Social  (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

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Where was I?

Ah yes, Sunday!

But first:

Ever wish you could keep track of ALL the important bits o’ data that are meandering around your business, keeping you on your toes? 

Well then! 

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Your takeaway? 

The tools to keep your data orderly are all out there (and much of them are free)… 

Why not take advantage of them today? 

Enjoy!

 Nifty?  And where was I?

Ah yes, it’s Sunday!

Definitely Sunday.

Saturday was exciting to the point I, well, stayed on bedrest for most of the day.

Wow, exciting indeed!

But… after awhile the leg finally started doing a bit better so wheeee.

Today, ideally, will be me seeing the Lego Movie 2 (yes, I confess – I adore humor and such!).  And even maybe the gym!  Woohoo!

Your takeaway from this perkup?

Don’t really have anything exciting to share.

But hey, life isn’t always a bunch of coffee beans!

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

🙂 And want you to see  the latest Pixar Short?

Of course you do!

🙂

And our morning art/humor?

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be Offline marketing  (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

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