Love is a wonderful gift. Do you deserve it?

I've heard that everyone deserves love...and I do not agree with that at all. When you're loved, you're given a precious gift that beyond material products such as Lexii or front-row sports tickets or a mansion or ...you get the picture.

Well, if you do not *show* you *value* such an offering, why the heck do you deserve it? Hmmm?

Ever heard the spouse who would tell their cherished parnter, you know I love you, I married you, right? I don't need to say it!

In some cases that might be true. But for the vast majority, I think, love must never be taken for granted, for it is always a dynamic, always-changing work in progress. It has to be, for people change constantly as well! Think about it - you might have a simply hellish day at the office or at home, yield to the desire to take it out on someone/anyone, bump into your love, and figuratively rip him or her to shreds out of frustration. It's not that they did anything wrong - they were in the wrong place at the wrong time.

The next day, you realize, ohmigosh, what did I say? Alas, the damage is done and you have to repair it. Love never conquers all - the sheer fact of human dippiness can affect it on an intimate level. It must be nurtured with care.

To achieve the full benefits of your Inner personal edge, you need to open your eyes to what love can mean for you (and even run the risk of allowing personal vulnerability as well). What are your expectations? And once you know them, do you make sure those you love are aware of them as well? So many times, we let our loves down by not sharing our expectations and instead, setting ourselves up to get hurt (and often, hurt badly). And then the person you love is left wondering, gee, where did I mess up?

There are several techniques you can implement to dramatically increase the satisfaction of your loves. And within The Inner Personal Edge, you'll uncover dozens of ideas to make your love something worth treasuring.

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